Romanticism kwaye Oluntu arab - Fidaoussi

I-romance ebantwini ngokubanzi kakhulu mnandi ndinovelwano

Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile rhoqo wathi kwi-arab-bume ukuba abantu ingaba khange kakhuluNangona kunjalo, kuya kwenzeka okokuba oku ukuziphatha ubeka i-arab umfazi kwi imeko ka-distress, ngenxa yokuba yena wathi, ukuba yena uthanda umntu wakhe ngokwenene, ke kungani bonisa kuye lowo ayisasebenzi yakhe uthando. Kubalulekile kananjalo omnye izizathu kutheni ezininzi couples arab ingaba ofakwe kwi-i-imbalance apho usongela zabo uzinzo kwaye usapho lwabo. Amaxesha amaninzi, umfazi akusebenzi sazi njani ukuba smolder e intliziyo umyeni ukuba kumenza umntu"ngakumbi romanticcomment". Umzekelo, basenokuba ngokulula bonisa-nangakumbi romanticcomment kunye yakhe umntu, okanye ingaba kulungile ngentliziyo ntoni yena likes. Oku akukho thabatha connotation, akukho offense ukuba abanye, ngenxa yokuba wonke umfazi ingaba ngokupheleleyo ilungelo uthando umyeni njengoko yena unqwenela. I-arab umntu kakhulu elinovakalelo, nangona oko oko kubonakala ukuba nomdla emehlweni akhe entourage Yena enjoys ngoko ke kakhulu ukuva izincomo ukusuka umkakhe. Ukongeza, uya anomdla izipho ukuba bakhe amatsha na ethe-ethe inika kuye eyokuba ke ukuthatha ixesha khetha into pleases naye kanjalo kakhulu appreciated. Yena uyayazi ukuba umntu sele isidingo uzinzo phantsi efanayo kophahla njengendoda nomfazi kwaye ukuba nangona kubalulekile ngokugqibeleleyo ilungelo ibango layo amalungelo, kufuneka ukhethe enjalo moments kwaye ukuphepha ngokwenza oko constantly. Eneneni, indlu ayikho inkundla kodwa indawo complicity, isizathu nobubele.

Mna manipulates ukufezekisa yakhe iphela

Kuya kuba njalo lula ukusombulula ezincinane disagreements kwi rational hlobo.

Ye nkqu, ukuba aphule routine ka-watshata ubomi, kubalulekile devote ixesha amanye amaxesha ukuba uhlale kuyo intloko intloko kunye mlingane, ngezimvo okanye ukufumana phandle ukutshintsha izimvo ngale ndlela, arab umfazi unako bonisa romance, kuye umntu, nto leyo kude ekubeni ayikwazi ukubonisa oko.

Kwaye indoda leyo, kuba inxalenye yakhe, kufuneka bonisa umkakhe uthando lwakhe kwi-iindlela ezahlukileyo, njengoko ukuba arabs ingaba agciniwe kwaye njenge ukugcina ngokubhekiselele ezingama-usapho, kubalulekile ndivuma prohibited okanye émasculant ka-ebonisa uvakalelo.

Molo, inqaku ngu kancinci ebhalwe kodwa yi-ithuba ndandikhangela imithombo kwi seduction kwi-indoda arab inkcubeko Kuba indima yam, ndikunye a sudanese kuba phantse unyaka, ekuqaleni ndabona kuye njengoko umhlobo, hayi attracted. Kodwa kakhulu vala umhlobo, kunye omkhulu affection, ukuthamba. Unabo idlalwe umdlalo we uphazamiso, kwaye kwangoko waqalisa thatha yakhe umgama. Apho ndeva ukuba oku: ngu-chu ekuguquleni Ukususela, akekho yeka. Njengoko sifumana kukufutshane, iintshukumo kude, ayinjalo gca kwi-amazwi akhe, kubalulekile isiphithiphithi kwaye mna hate kuyo. Ndine elide wafuna ukuqonda, kuza ucinga ukuba oku kwaba uhlobo a manipulative narcissistic ndava betrayed, ngenxa yokuba eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kuba nam waba le trust, oku affection, ndithi kum ukuba ekugqibeleni mna kufuneka ebalulekileyo kuye, kodwa hayi no. Ngoko ndandicinga emva komnye yangaphambili sudanese nge ukuba ithathe kakhulu elifutshane kwaba enye into. Ngoko ke ndimangazekile ukuba Akukho nto yenkcubeko. Enye indlela yokwenza ukwenza umfazi dependent, izixhobo zokupeyinta phakathi moments ka-rapprochement kwaye umgama, nkqu belittling Ukuba ngunyana wam umbono intshona-koloni. Ngenxa yokuba mna andinaku kuma ngayo, ke kakhulu painful. Yena nkqu wandixelela ukuba, ukuba ndifuna ukuhlala ezizolileyo, wayecinga ukuba kuya kubanjalo. Kubalulekile ezoyikekayo ngenxa andinguye nako ukususa intloko yintoni sele wahlala mnandi. Kwaba komoya okanye into. Okanye rhoqo, intloko yakhe mna ke ixhoba lazo. Mna ukufunda zonke ezi izimvo kunye kakhulu ingqalelo. Ngoko ke, ndenza ezimbini observations, kuqala, ukuxoka kwaye kuba unganyanisekanga kwi Arab ingaba yenkcubeko incopho bar. Ucela kuye kuba i-adresi, ithumela ukuba eliwaka iindawo lokwenyani idilesi azisayi kukuxelela ukuba abe sele uyazi. Isithoba le abafazi okanye ngaphezulu ingaba ingasebenzi, okanye babe musa beve kakuhle, okanye abayiboni kakuhle. Ukuba, mna kufuneka uqaphele ekuhambeni wam ubufazi conquests. Ngesiquphe, handicap intlungu yi-baninzi uninzi abafazi, ikhuthaza abantu ukumelana inyaniso. Ukuba unako linda kuba inkosikazi umntu othe ishumi, amabini okanye nkqu amathathu eminyaka younger than yena. Nto, nto, nto Baza beka phantsi jikelele lo handicap ukusukela kuse ixesha.