Loneliness versus loneliness-okanye: umntu kufuneka absolutely kufuneka bazi. Umnu Minimalist

Ngoko ke, omabini ngabo ukusuka kwabo

Lokuqala mzuzu, mhlawumbi, wacinga, uloyiko ukuba wenzaNibe kanjalo ukuba, njengokuba benditshilo, ukuba kukhangeleka ngathi uphumeza uhamba wedwa uthabatha. Okanye kangakanani uziva ufuna abe ngomnye. Ngaphandle touch nabanye abantu, abahlobo okanye acquaintances. Kodwa yinto apha ukuba kukunceda kakhulu ethabatha yesibini jonga kwaye, ngaphezu kwazo zonke, realizing ukuba loneliness kwaye loneliness kwi omabini efanayo coin kusini na enye into. Elinye icala ukuba imida uyakwazi end phezulu ukwenza kuni lonely kwaye kusenokwenzeka ubukrakra, ngexesha kwelinye icala ligama leqhosha kuwe kwaye inikezela nani uvuyo loluntu ubomi ngaphakathi khona. Kuthetha ntoni ukuba abe yedwa? Yintoni loneliness? Kwaye yintoni engundoqo neeyantlukwano? Ungaya phakathi amakhulu abantu bazive yedwa. Emva zonke, ke olugqibeleleyo, akukho mcimbi yintoni kokuya kwi-jikelele kuwe. Loneliness yi ndinovelwano oko kukuthi kuzalwa kwaye ubomi. Kakhulu thabatha ndinovelwano ukuba wonke umntu uyayazi. Loneliness zichaziwe njengoko i-ngaphakathi urhulumente ukuba ufumana ayifakwanga ukusuka nemvakalelo. Lento ngu thabatha imeko enako waziva kuthi, kwaye hayi wethu nearest ummelwane. Kengoko kufuneka ngokwaneleyo unxulumano kunye abantu ukuba babelane zethu amava, iingcinga, kwaye uvakalelo kunye nabo. Mna anayithathela uqaphele oku ndinovelwano ngokwam, umzekelo, kutshanje, xa ndagqiba ekuhambeni wam indlela minimalism, kwaye ndine Facebook kuba personal ngeenjongo nto ongomnye. (Kunjalo, kukho worse imizekelo, ndithanda, kodwa okokuqala umzekelo minimalism). Ngenye imini, lo loluntu kuyo intsingiselo waba ilahlekile, apho Facebook xa kucingwa ka-uthetha malunga kwam nabo bonke honesty. Ndiza kuba apha ekunene ngoku, kodwa awunokwazi ukwenza oko ndikwenza kwi-Facebook, kwaye mhlawumbi nkqu nawe okanye hayi. Ngenxa yokuba akukho mcimbi njani superficial kwaye emfutshane i-budlelwane nabanye kwaye i-intanethi unxibelelwano baba kuba kum, benza kwam ukuva socially owenza nangaliphi na ixesha ezisebenza socially.

Ukuba ndine loluntu womnatha kwaye kwangoko ndiziphinda-shiya, ngoko ke ngokuqinisekileyo, hayi kuba kum ngexesha kakhulu ekuqaleni, ngenxa kunye esi sigqibo ndine unxulumano ukuba abanye abantu kuba alaphukanga.

Namhlanje yonke into eyahlukileyo. Wam departure wayesele inyanga emva kwam. Ubomi bam isa njalo. Kwaye wam loluntu ubomi, kakhulu. Endaweni yokuba ehleli jikelele yonke imihla kwi-phambili ikhompyutha kwaye ezisebenza nabanye abantu, mna bakhetha kuhlangana abantu ngqo. Okanye ubuncinane ndizakuyenza umnxeba kwabo. Mna ikhethe nayiphi na personal unxibelelwano. Kwaye ixesha ukuba ndingayisebenzisa ngenxa yam ukukhula. Kwaye kuba akhonto kuba ngcono ngam: Kuphela zolile amanzi senze izinto zibonisa ngokucacileyo. Kuphela ngendlela icimile sezingqondweni kukho ecacileyo kubonisa i-ego kwaye ubomi."Hans Marley, loneliness kuthetha deliberate exclusion kuba nam."Hans Marley, loneliness kuthetha deliberate exclusion kuba nam.

Ndagqiba kwelokuba ukuchitha ixesha spontaneously kuphela kunye ngokwam.

Kutheni into edibanisayo? Mna osetyenziselwa kuba literally scared. Ndidinga abantu jikelele kum, abazithandayo ukuze isetyenziswe, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kwenye indawo apho abantu bayathanda ukuba mamela. Kuba ubomi bam, ngenxa yam iinjongo kunye namanyathelo, xa ndandicinga malunga nayo, mna appreciated i-jikeleziso yabanye abantu.

Emva koko, mna wafumana ingqwalasela, badumisa, kwaye criticism.

Nje isolated evela kwabanye abantu

Ixesha elide eyadlulayo, ndaba le mibuzo ngaphakathi kum:"abakufutshane nawe? Yintoni ungakwazi ukuyenza? Yintoni ufuna? njl-njl. Kodwa akunandaba ndinguye Mna okuthe nkqo ukuba andiyenzanga ukufumana impendulo eyiyo wam apartment, kwi-bam-bume, kwi-bam budlelwane nabanye. Ngoko ke mna ndawufumana ntoni mna ngenene luyafuneka ngaphandle. Ndeva wam iingcinga ngaphandle judging okanye judging. Oko nje made kum yokucinga yonke ingcinga. Ndithathe ixesha lam. Kwaye yafikelela ezithile incopho, a apho kwentloko yam ubuze. Positively ongenanto.

Ngenxa yokuba xa intloko yakho uzolile, uyazi ngcono kunokuba yintoni ngaphakathi.

Uyakwazi ukucacisa bona abo uneminyaka ngaphezulu. Uvumelekile ukuba profoundly honest kunye ngokwakho. Ukususela ngoko, loneliness sele phantse kuba uhlobo ritual.

Kanye ngeveki, ndidinga ixesha ucinga.

Ingathatha ukusoloko ezahluka-hlukileyo.

Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuba kugxila ngokwakho.

Ukuba ukwanalo ezi imibuzo yakho intloko, mhlawumbi uziva isolated okanye nje kuba cacisa intloko ukuba ufuna kuba ubomi bakho kwaye ucinge ngalento yakho iinjongo, ngoko ke wasinikela nethuba.

Thatha ixesha lakho kwaye get acquainted.

Uyakwazi thatha ibhafu ukuba ufuna. Basele a Indebe oyithandayo ikofu okanye iti, mamela oyithandayo CDs, zolile ngokwakho kwaye engqondweni yakho kunye meditation okanye yoga. Akukho mcimbi yintoni ukhetha ngenye imini, yicime. Uyakuthanda mzuzu, cwaka, ukuthatha ngokwakho kwaye nimamele. Ukufumana phandle ukuba ufuna eyaziwayo, ukufumana phandle into ufuna. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, ndiya jonga ubomi bakho (ubuncinane inxalenye). Kwaye ke kuba abanye fun. Uyonwabele nani kwaye ubomi bakho. Kwaye uza kubona ukuba ufuna efanayo, uyazi ukuba ngubani unoxanduva kwaye ngubani ofuna, uza kwenza yakho loluntu ubomi esidibanisayo. Ngoko ke loneliness waits, njengoko ingaba loneliness. Ekugqibeleni, kubalulekile loneliness, kodwa iqhosha loneliness. Ndiya kusebenzisa ixesha lam nawe ukufumana eyona ndlela kuyizisa ekukhanyeni. Kwaye ngoko uyonwabele nge-wonke ukuba kuvavanya abo ufuna ngokwenene ingaba.