Ingcebiso kwi Dating Arab Abafazi Impilo Isikhokelo

Islam yi ukholo kwaye Arab yi inkcubeko

Enye uninzi ngokufanayo iimpazamo ukuba senza namhlanje kwi icingela ukuba abantu ukusuka kwesinye isigaba ehlabathini lonke kwamkela enye inkolo okanye philosophies

Ke ngoko, xa ezama ingcebiso kwi dating Arab abafazi izakuba eyona ukuqonda ukuba uphelelwe mhlawumbi 'ukucinga' ukuba umfazi ngu-Muslim.

Kukho ngokubanzi umahluko phakathi ezimbini nkqu nokuba baya kuba baninzi amanqaku ka-ukunqamleza.

Dating i-Arab umfazi ayikho enye nokuthi dating umfazi abantliziyo usapho embraces i-Islam ukholo.

Ukuba umfazi ngu kunye kwaye isi-Muslim, wenze umsebenzi wakho out kuba ufuna ukuba akunjalo, likholwa. Nkqu nokuba ekubeni isi-kwaye ekubeni Muslim kusini na enye kwaye ngokufanayo, kukho omkhulu yaba ka-overlap kwi-izimvo zabo kwi-mtshato kwaye dating. Ubungqina khumbula ukuba kukho roughly omnye kunye necala bhiliyoni okwenyani kwi-Muslim ukholo xa kukho ukuthelekisa Arabs unako kuphela kubalwa kwi amakhulu izigidi. Nangona Arab abafazi kusenokuba na ukholo, oorhulumente ingaba predominantly Muslim. Oku kuphela significantly impacts indlela Arab abafazi ingaba reared. Ukuba umfazi ngu-a s omnye we-Arab states, uyakwazi imali yena uya zithe sheltered ngexesha lokukhula phezulu. Modesty ebaluleke prime ukubaluleka ukuba Arabs kwaye segregation ngu vital. Umbutho woomama asingawo ngokubanzi ebone kwi company babantu unchaperoned kwaye iselwa rhoqo zabo marriages ingaba? arranged kuba nabo. Oku akusoloko kunjalo ka-Arabs abahlala Entshona ihlabathi njengoko iintsapho apha zazinokuba assimilated kwi inkcubeko yethu ukuba abanye kangakanani. Nangona kunjalo, Arab abafazi kuza kwakhona kufuneka ukuba abe wamanzi acociweyo kunye kokukhona ngokubhekiselele kunokuba zabo western counterparts ukuba sekhe ithemba ukwenza obu budlelwane umsebenzi. Ukuba umfazi uzalana Islam kwaye yakhe usapho ngu devout ke izakuba phantse ukwenzeka kuba i-infidel (non-believer) kunikelwa imvume umhla wakhe. Nje iingongoma lubonise ukuba kukho wenziwe elikhulu yaba ka-tension phakathi Islamic Arab iintsapho abahlala kwi-West kodwa nangona kunjalo ubambe olomeleleyo lwabo. Islamic abafazi azivumelekanga ukuba ukhethe babo imihla kwaye abantu kufuneka ucele imvume evela kubawo, umkhuluwa okanye umdala indoda ilungu losapho phambi dating umfazi. Eneneni, kuphela indlela umhla umfazi ukusuka esiqhelekileyo Muslim usapho izakuba kwi-sly. Lento zange a into elungileyo kwaye kufuneka avoided ngaphandle kokuba nomdla bond amaxwebhu ukusuka kakhulu intlanganiso yokuqala. Uyakwazi pretty kakhulu gauge na okanye hayi umfazi evela a engqongqo Islam usapho ukuba yena ngu wearing a hajib (intloko covering) okanye niqab (ubuso veil). Ngenxa inani elikhulu Islamic basetyhini kwenza kuzimasa iyunivesithi kwi-West uza ezisebenza kunye nabo ngoko ke kubalulekile imperative ukuze ukwazi discern ukuba wakhe usapho ingaba sithathe isikhubekisi kuye dating a non-believer. I kakhulu into yokuqala kufuneka baqonde malunga dating i-Arab umfazi kukuba yena uya kusenokwenzeka ukuba imfuneko enkulu, yaba ngaphezulu malunga ngaphezu kwayo Western counterparts. Ngexesha bubonke ihlabathi libekho lwesiqulatho apho kugxilwa kwi loomama lib, Arab izizwe baba immersed kwi-esiqhelekileyo Arab Islam amaxabiso kwaye masiko. Enye into ukuba uza isaziso kukuba Arab abafazi ngakumbi afumaneka ngokuzenzekela libazisa ukuba indoda dominance nkqu nokuba babe imfuneko yakho ngokubhekiselele. Ukuba yi-abanye abalobi mmangaliso uvunyelwe ukuba umhla i-ultra-conservative Muslim Arab umfazi ke kuya kufuneka ukuthobela conventions. Enye into ukuba ingaba ngenene isibheno ukuba i-Arab usesinye listened. Abafazi abo bamele accustomed ukuba ekubeni dominated ndiya kuzithambisa xa umntu amaxabiso zabo opinions. Xa ebe wavusa kwi-indoda dominated society ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuba flattered ngokuthi umntu othe ngqo listens yabo opinions kwaye uzimisele umthetho ngomhla wabo ufuna neminqweno. Kwi-West sino trouble kunye eli ingcamango yokuba abafazi zithe elizimeleyo kuba kakhulu ixesha elide. Oku asiyo meko kwi-Arabic inkcubeko kwaye mhlawumbi omnye surest iindlela ukuphumelela kwabo phezu. Nkqu ukuba umfazi ufuna umhla ayikho Muslim, uza? ufuna earn i-ngokubhekiselele yena nosapho lwakhe. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba bamele immersed kwi-yenkcubeko neeyantlukwano kwaye uza kuma a kakhulu ngcono ithuba abayo ukuba kufuneka kuqala ezuze ngokubhekiselele lukayise okanye ezinye males eliphathiswe yakhe care. Ucele ubawo imvume umhla intombi yakhe, nkqu ukuba yena ufumana i-omdala. Nangona kunjalo, kulungiselelwa ukuba ziza kwaliwa okokuqala ucela.

Mna ke ezama ngakumbi elithetha

Ukuzothi ga bekuya kuba eyona imbi into ungakwazi ukwenza iminqweno yabo. Umonde yi ubunyulu kwaye into eza kuza handy xa dating Arab abafazi. Thatha ixesha ukubonisa yakhe yakho intentions ingaba kwababekekileyo nkqu ukuba akunjalo, ikhangela elide budlelwane ngomhla wokuqala. Chances bamele yena. I-ugqaliso ezininzi Arab iintsapho kukuba nyusa neentombi zabo kuba okulungileyo abafazi. Oku kunokuba k ubonakala ngathi archaic kuthi, kodwa abo ezinye cultures oko yindlela yokuphila.

Ukumbule ukuba dating i-Arab umfazi ngubani kanjalo i-ardent Muslim uya khona.

obstacles woloyiso.

Hayi kuphela iya umfazi uninzi kusenokwenzeka ukuba abe anombhalo njengoko i-outcast kodwa uza luthathwe utshaba ngokunjalo. Kunjalo, asingabo bonke Arab abafazi ingaba Muslims ngoko ke baya kuba asingabo bonke governed yi-efanayo engqongqo codes of ukuziphatha.

Kwangokunjalo, inkcubeko yabo ebaluleke extreme ukubaluleka kwaye kufuneka ngokubhekiselele ukuba ngexesha zonke iindleko.

Eyona ingcebiso kwi dating Arab abafazi izakuba ukuqonda babo bube evakalayo osapho kunye namaxabiso. Ukuba awukwazi ngokubhekiselele ukuba, ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba intonga kunye abafazi ukusuka kweyenu inkcubeko. Kulungile, kwaye bethu entshona abafazi abo rhoqo ingaba ithathwe njengoko 'worthless blond ngubani*res' kwaye 'ileta ze infidel ngabanye ezithile unqulo amaqela awuyidingi unyamezelo intlonipho, ngelishwa Enye into guy ekubeni dominant (hayi kakhulu dominant) kwaye respectful yilento wonke budlelwane iimfuno. Hayi, abekho wavusa kuba okulungileyo abafazi, ngaphandle kokuba ke usapho abo akakholelwa kwi imfundo. Endaweni yokuba izinto nje sheltered ngenxa yokuba musa ufuna nabo ukuze uqwalaselwe njengoko kulula okanye kuba ezininzi meaningless budlelwane nabanye. Elinye icebiso ukuba uninzi western guys asingawo osetyenziselwa, NGAPHANTSI touching - ukuba yinto abekho accustomed waza ngayo ibonisa ukuba yakho intentions kukusebenzisa yakhe. Ubukhe wathetha kuye abazali ayithethi ukuba zithetha touch yakhe. Ezincinane yesitalato uqhagamshelane abe kulungile kodwa thatha ixesha lakho. Yesibini ingcebiso. Punk! england, ndithi, ukuba wena musa umhla kum uza end phezulu yedwa. Ngenxa yokuba musa kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba i-fool nabani na. Lesithathu kwaye oku kubalulekile, musa nkqu cinga ekubeni abayo okanye wasting wakhe ixesha, ukuba akunjalo, ethanda ukwamkela yakhe ukuzonwabisa (Akukho yena akayi tshintsha yakhe iimboniselo kuba wena okanye nabani) kakhulu, kodwa hayi zonke kubo, eyaziwayo kuba nomdla uphawu. Uvumelekile ukuba yamkela zabo inkcubeko kunye inkolo ufumana into bazibona njengoko respectful kwaye ukuqonda (dibanisa ufuna ngokwenene kufuneka uthando care ukwenza oko). Ndizokwenza i-Arab kubekho inkqubela, owaye wavusa yi-iselwa unqulo abazali. Nangona kunjalo, akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube efanayo engqondweni misela njengoko nabo. Mna nje ingaba ukongeza kwi ntoni na kuwe ukuthi ukuba abaninzi young Arab abantu bakholisa ukuba abe ezahlukeneyo ngaphezu kwabazali babo, kwaye surly ungathanda ukuba umhla foreigners. Kunjalo, intlonipho, ekubeni kunikwe abanye ixesha cinga malunga nayo (akukho rush) ingaba ngenene ebalulekileyo. Kwaye btw, abaninzi yam 'hijab' abahlobo ingaba ngenene vula minded malunga dating foreigners, nangona kunjalo, njengoko Arab abafazi, baya mhlawumbi maxa zange qala intshukumo kwaye ndiya linda kuba ufuna ukwenza shenxisa. Kwaye kwaqalisa kulungile, kodwa ke waba redundant kwaye ugqibile ngenye dismissively. Enkosi, nangona kunjalo, kuba addressing isihloko. Lutz Copyright Impilo isikhokelo. Onke amalungelo agciniwe. DISCLAIMER: Ngu-ushicilelo, ukukhuphela, okanye usebenzisa uyavuma zethu epheleleyo mimiselo.