Dating A Younger Guy: ishumi Izizathu Kufuneka yenze

Kunoko abantu silindele kakhulu ukususela abafazi

Ngaphandle kokuba nisolko lucky ngokwaneleyo ukuba ingaba George Clooney njengoko yakho booty umnxeba (kwaye andinguye ukuba lucky), inani esinye isizathu abafazi umhla younger abantu ngu ngenxa yokuba ingaba sexyUkuba u ekunene, ndibe nento yokuba ngenye kubona zinokuphathwa barely ngokusemthethweni kwi ziqinile shirt (okanye akukho shirt) kunokuba abanye eliphakathi-iphelelwe guy abantliziyo beers kuba ibambe phezulu naye kwaye ubungqina bokuba ufumana wakhe isisu. Ndine umhlobo abo nje graduated yesikolo esiphakamileyo ukuba weza phezulu kum wathi,"Tshini, khangela kuyo ngaphandle, ndizama ukufumana makhulu kuba uzive."njengoko yena flexed yakhe axis powers e kum. Andisoze admit kuyo. Mna copped a bazive kuba njengoko ixesha elide njengoko ndinga.

Mna anayithathela kokuba wam share ka-engalunganga imihla, kodwa kuba uninzi isiqingatha, eyona imbi kubo baba kunoko abantu.

Xa ndithi ndiza a umbhali, younger guys idla nje nod uthi"elihle"kwaye uhambe ngayo ngaloo njengoko imibono ka-Kerouac umdaniso ngomsebenzi wabo intloko (kwaye andiqondi kuba intliziyo alungise kwazo). Xa ndithi ndiza a umbhali ukuba kunoko abantu babe cela kum"Kutheni, ayikwazanga kuwe sika ngayo kwi-real ihlabathi."Ngamanye amazwi, ladies, younger guys musa care apho ufuna umsebenzi. Enyanisweni, loo nto yinto yokugqibela kwi ingqondo yakhe njengoko nisolko yokufuna ukwazi ngamnye enye. Ndinguye omnye abafazi abo bangengabo ezithile ukuba minivan kwaye u-incopho ezintlanu abantwana akunjalo, kuba yakhe. Ndifuna ukuhamba, ukuba badle lovino kwi-Italy, ukukhwela ibhasi camel ukuba pyramids, ufumane umfanekiso. Younger guys ingaba ngokupheleleyo kulungile ukudibana nawe yakho amaphupha ka-yokuphepha. Kunoko guys ikholisa kwi hurry ukufumana watshata kwaye ingaba abantwana, okanye abanako ukuba, ubuncinane, kuba kuphumla ubomi babo kwakucwangcisiwe ngaphandle kwi-mnandi abancinane ummandla wexesha: (ubomi bakho iqukiwe). Ukuba ukhe ubene a kubekho inkqubela eyenze ukuba ibe yinxalenye intshukumo, umhla a younger guy. Le guy liya kusa ukuba onke amaqela, uyazazi zonke hippest hangouts kwaye uya kuba kuqala ukuba angenise ukuba"kwi -"indimbane.

Younger guys ingaba kakhulu cooler kunokuba sikhululekile, ladies, makhe ubuso kuyo.

Dating a younger guy, ke ngoko, ngokuzenzekelayo yenza kuthi elihle yi-association. Andinako usamuel oku ngokwaneleyo. Ukuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukufumana ilungelo younger guy (kwaye ndiya bathethe malunga ezingachanekanga okkt kamsinya) uya siphathe ungathanda egolide. Younger abantu bakho? kakhulu yaxhobisa iqhotyoshelwe yabo moms. Xa ucinga oku kuya kwenza i-red flag, ndinganixelela ukuba ngokwenene ithetha baya kuba ezininzi malunga kuba kunoko abafazi kwaye ndiya siphathe ukuba abancinane izinto ngathi bephethe ukuvula ucango kwaye oqhuba bags zakho kuwe. Mna ebhalwe oku kunoko guy othe ngxi babehlala ekhaya kunye yakhe mom (oko unako ndithi, ladies, engalunganga isihlalo kwi-bam inxalenye) kodwa kokuba akukho malunga kuba abafazi ngenxa yokuba yena zange kubekho ukwenza nantoni na yi-ngokwakhe. Mna ke horrified nanini na xa siphindaphinda waphuma. Ndaba ukuhlawula, yena usoloko wahamba kuzo ngaphambili kum, lowo asikwazanga care malunga wam imbono uluhlu aqhubeke.

Yabo umculo iqhele ngcono, kakhulu

Younger guys kuba nje kutshanje bafudukela ngaphandle usapho lwabo ekhaya kwaye basemazweni ukuba"Ngoku into."iqonga ka-ethabatha nokukhathalelwa ngokwabo. Ngenxa yale (ngokwenza kwezabo laundry, ekuphekeni iziqu zabo, njl. njl.) ezi guys ingaba ke nyani appreciate zabo mom kwaye ke ngoko uya appreciate kuwe njengoko i-ubudala, elibalulekileyo umfazi. Ukuba ungummi MILF okanye cougar, ngoko ke sele uyazi yintoni ndiza uthetha malunga xa ndithi le guy uthanda ukuba kubonisa ngaphandle. I-ubudala guy nje thinks kuni njengenxalenye icebo lakhe. Kunoko guys kuba ikholisa ukuba atshate phambi kokuba okanye iintliziyo zabo alaphukanga phambi kwaye musa bamba na umfazi kwi-ngokwaneleyo athathe ukubeka nabo kwi pedestal. Younger guys, nangona kunjalo, ingaba? naïve ehlabathini yabasetyhini kwaye kukho icing ngomhla wakhe cake. Hayi kuphela uya brag ukuba abahlobo bakhe ukuze abe ufumene umfazi, kodwa lowo ufumene i-UBUDALA umfazi (apho kuthetha ukuba bazi kakhulu ngaphezulu malunga ngesondo kunokuba wakhe, umhlobo ke girlfriends). Wam ex-boyfriend waba elinesibini leminyaka younger than kwam nanini na xa siphindaphinda kuhlangatyezwana nazo naziphi na yakhe abahlobo, ndiya kukuxelela ukuba girls baba onomona, kwaye guys rhoqo wabuza ukuba waba nam (kwimeko impendulo waba"hayi"ngoko ke bathi ukucela kum ngaphandle). Alright, makhe sifumane ukuba inxalenye ebalulekileyo, ladies.

Wena mna kunye nokwazi ukuba isizathu sibe umhla younger abantu ngu kuba ngesondo.

Ngoku, ndiya admit, kunoko guys ingaba smoother kunye isa kwaye bamele rhoqo ngcono e benza ntoni ukuba bakwenze.

Kunawe uyayazi indlela kumnandi umfazi ngenxa yokuba yena ke experienced.

Oko kusenokuba nzima ukuba phezulu ukuba ngenene.

Kodwa younger abantu bamele ngcono. Younger guys kuba zintathu izinto ndihamba kuba nabo ukuba kunoko abantu nje musa: Baye. komhlaba, baya kuba stamina kwaye bamele ngako oko. Curiosity yi enkulu inxalenye okulungileyo ngesondo.

Andikhathali njani okulungileyo the guy kwi umandlalo, ukuba siyenzayo efanayo routine wonke busuku ngoko ke ndifumana okruqukileyo.

Kunoko guys imiselwe kwi-iindlela zabo kwaye ukuba lowo ubudala routine ngu-phantse isiqinisekiso.

Younger guys kanjalo kuba kakhulu ngakumbi stamina. Nanini na xa wam eks boy-kde (ewe, waye nje plaything) ifumene antonio, lowo ayikwazi yokugqibela kuba iiyure. Kwaba pretty amazing. Okubaluleke kakhulu, younger abantu bamele ngako oko. Ezi guys ingaba ngoko ke, ninoyolo ukuba abe yokufumana yi-nca a real umfazi ukuba baya ngochulumanco kuba ngomhla yakho doorstep na ixesha emini okanye ebusuku ukuze uqinisekise ukuba ukhe ubene pleased ngokwaneleyo ukuze bazigcine jikelele. Asikuko kuphela oku omkhulu ngesondo, kodwa likwakwazi a enkulu ego kukhuthaza.

Enye into ndibathanda kakhulu malunga younger abantu kukuba bamele vula minded.

Ezi guys khumbula oko ke, zithanda ukuphila kwaye baya remind kuwe njani ukuze siphile.

Baya philosophize, baya react ehlabathini kwaye baya jonga izinto ukusuka ezahlukeneyo angles, nto leyo ngenene a uncedo ukuba ukhe ubene ukudinwa ka-dating amadala guy abo nje ufuna ukuhlala ekhaya kwaye ukubukela umdlalo (ke thetha malunga nayo emva kokuba).

Wemiceli-umahluko mna bona phakathi ubudala kwaye younger abantu kukuba younger abantu abasayi boss kuwe jikelele.

Baya noba cinga wena yabo no okanye uza ukuba ufuna kwi ngaphezulu inqanaba kunoko bamele (oko kukholisa ukwenzeka kunjalo).

Mna andinaku kukuxelela mangaphi amaxesha mna anayithathela weva yobudala engama-guys kuthi stupid zinto kum ngathi"ukuhlamba izandla zenu phambi kwenu get kwi-car"okanye"Musa wear ukuba dress ukuba isidlo sasemini, zama enye omnye endaweni". Mna anayithathela nkqu weva"ngenene, musa ucinga kufuneka nzulu into ibe luncedo ngakumbi kule kholeji."Uyabona apho oku kokuya, akunjalo. Ladies, konke ndinako kuthi kukuba younger abantu musa ukuthi stupid izinto ngoluhlobo (bathi ezinye stupid izinto kodwa ke hayi incopho).

Younger abantu bazi ngcono kunokuba emandikuxelele yona abo abe (ikakhulu ngenxa yokuba akhange na figured ngaphandle abo bamele noko).

Kulungile, ndiza kuba le nto ngokuchasene whiny abantu ngokubanzi. Ukuba ndinezinto ezininzi iibhola kunokuba wena, thina shouldn khange abe dating. Nangona kunjalo, abantu bonke iminyaka ndithi (kwaye ingaba) ngenene stupid izinto ngamanye amaxesha. Kulula yaba ngayo ukusuka amabini-into (ke uhlobo olulindelekileyo e zabo ubudala) kunokuba kube ngonaphakade evela a amane-into (ngenene, waye loo.). Nje omnye nzima-isebenza mom abo loves yakhe kid, uthanda ukubhala, andinaku cook, kwaye wenze into kuba tentacles. Xa andikho hanging ngomgca wam Spawn, ndiza happily lwe wam dating amava kwaye umnikelo ingcebiso kwaye uzama ukulawula ikhaphethi ukuba iza kunye ekubeni oluntu. Honestly lento yonke inyaniso. Ndinguye phantse elinesithandathu kwaye boyfriend yam. Yena ke, ngakumbi childish kwaye banokuthatha a joke kwaye sele wam khetha ka-personality. I-ubudala guy thinks ndiza ngenene immature: Funny, ishumu elinesithandathu-yeminyaka ubudala kubekho inkqubela ngqo made amagqabantshintshi oku. Njenge elinesithandathu-yeminyaka ubudala girls sazi njani ukujika umntu njalo. Mna kanjalo ikhethe kakhulu younger guys. Njengoko ixesha elide njengoko yena asemthethweni ubudala ngoko ubudala sele akukho neziphumo. Mna ke watshata kuba iminyaka esibhozo kwaye divorced kwi, kakhulu kuqala ngesondo emva wam wokuqhawula umtshato wayekunye a amabini-yeminyaka ubudala kwaye bendiphantsi. Icebiso lam abafazi ukuba isampuli i-younger abantu, bamele emangalisayo.

Yiya kwi-gym yithi rhoqo kwaye bayigcine fit, yakho stamina kufuneka thelekisa kuwe mans.

Amaxesha amaninzi, ndine waya ubusuku bonke kwaye wayemthanda enjoying omtsha mfana. Yam imihla young umntu ubani ifemi isandla kunye nam, kwaye mna nje inyibilika xa ndiyazi ukuba uya kuthabatha kum kancinci ekunene. Mna uthando abantu kwaye ngesondo ngaphezu ngonaphakade kwaye uthando njani eager bamele ukuba nceda kum. Ndiza nje flattered okokuba unyaka omnye, ndibe nezinto ezimbini guys significantly younger than me anomdla. Omnye waba amane-u-kokudlula a wokuqhawula umtshato. Wokuqala omnye asikwazanga hamba kakhulu ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, uninzi kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngenxa wokuqhawula umtshato trauma. Ndathi akukho Umnu mna ngenene babefuna ukuba uthi ewe. Kakhulu aph, incredibly sexy, ezinkulu conversationalist. Mna ke andwebileyo attracted kuye xa ndandiqala wayibona. Ndiza nje hookup kubekho inkqubela. Unina kwaye mna kwakukho enye ubudala, kodwa yena wafa emine edlulileyo. Ukuba wone mommy imiba. Kodwa kakhulu sweet. Ndiza dating a amabini anesihlanu-yeminyaka ubudala umntu ndiza. Yena ke clingy kwaye ngolu hlobo kum jikelele constantly mna ezilahlekileyo yam indoda abahlobo, mna musa ukusebenzisa loluntu media kwaye andiqondi kuphuma. Yena uphume umsebenzi wakhe, uya iqinisekisa wam ifowuni (ndishiya kuyo jikelele kuba kuye ku-jonga ngenxa yokuba yena ke kakhulu insecure) mna ngenene ndacinga ayikwazi uncedo kuye mna wanika kakhulu ukuya kwi - uncedo wawuphungula yakhe insecurity, kodwa akukho nto sele isebenza mna ngokuqinisekileyo musa ukuba andisoze umhla a younger umntu kwakhona. Sisebenzisa abazinikeleyo ukuba idala inyama, kakhulu kwaye elinye icebiso kuba abafazi ukuba akuthethi ukuba nje kwazisa, kodwa kanjalo ufundisa kwaye excites kuwe.

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