Apho unako kuhlangana a isijamani ummi. Lokugwadlwa ukufunda isijamani, abahlala kunye studying kwi-Germany

Sidinga yakho ingcebiso okanye lwakho uluvo lwam

Mna kuba wayecinga kakhulu malunga yakho personal ubomi baze babe nokuza elokugqibela ukuba ndingathanda ukuba ibandakanye yakho personal ubomi kwi-GermanyObjectively ukuthetha, ndiyakholelwa okokuba ndinguye ilungile kuba oku inyathelo. Ndiyayazi isijamani ulwimi. Ndine khondo lobungcali-mfundo lilonke evumela kwam ukusebenza ukususela a umgama kunye negalelo yayo yonke lwabiwo-mali (oko kukuthi andikho oza kuhlala kwindlela yakho umyeni ke neck). Ilungile (mentally kwaye financially) ukugqiba high school e a isijamani Ngezifundo (musani ukoyika).

Nto uba nam emva kwi-Germany (akukho incwadana yokundwendwela stamps, akukho abantwana).

Ideally, ndingathanda kuhlangana a isijamani"- Russian"ngaphandle encountering umahluko kwi mentality, kodwa mna nilinde kwaye ukhethe ukuya kuhlangana ngokupheleleyo-blooded Germans, andiqondi ukuba ke ngoko kulula ukufumana uthando consciously. Indlela unako mna fumana ngaphandle apho imoto yakho ngu? a isalamane umoya? Andiyazi na ezimbalwa abathi ayikwazanga ukufumana ukwazi ngamnye nabanye, ingakumbi ngexesha phendla. Kwiziganeko eziliqela, oku kwenzeka ngokungalindelekanga, uthando kwaye ukuqonda kuza nokuba ulwazi langaphandle iilwimi. Akukho ulwimi barrier kothando. Kodwa ngexesha abanye incopho, elimfiliba lunika a surprise. Musa woyikayo ka-umahluko kwi-mentality. Abafazi kusenokuba kakhulu flexible kwaye lula adapt entsha iimeko. Ukuba banqwenela, mutual ukuqonda soloko kunokwenzeka. Umyeni wam ndiqonda ngamnye ezinye kakuhle kakhulu. Ndandingasakwazi kuthi kakhulu phambi, kodwa lowo ndaqonda nam kakhulu ngcono kunokuba wam countrymen. Ndiyakholwa ukuba amazwi ngamanye amaxesha interfere kunye ukuqonda. Kwezinye iimeko, kungcono ukuba ahlale cwaka, cinga ngoko ke kakhulu, kwaye kwangoko calmly kuxoxwe imeko, na injongo unqwenela, kwaye uza waphumelela. Mhlawumbi le ndawo kwelanga meets passionate Prussia. Kwaye unako ukwenza okulungileyo osapho kunye elungileyo guy ongummelwane, esabelana ungaya kuhlala kunye. nantoni na) Okulungileyo comment) Ubuqu, mna anayithathela weva ukuba Germans ingaba neentloni ukuba admit yintoni siyazi kwi-Intanethi.

Phambi ungacinga isicwangciso into ofuna

Bam girlfriend ke umyeni ngu embarrassed ukuba bathethe i-Germans bahlangana kwi-Intanethi, njengoko kukho kubalulekile phantse waqwalasela njengoko"Ilungisiwe a isijamani umfazi ye-Intanethi". Kodwa zama ukwenza uqhagamshelwano ngokudibanisa ezimbalwa amaqela Germans abahlala Munich, Berlin, Hamburg, kwaye encinane, izixeko. Kwezi amaqela, kusoloko kukho othi"Dating"- kwaye bakholelwe kum, baninzi"- Russian"Germans abakhoyo ikhangela ezifana nothando - ngenxa Sasejamani kuko konke kwi-usapho kwaye akakwazi ukwenza kakhulu iinzame ukuba ingaba abantwana, njalo-njalo. Endleleni, kukho kanjalo iindawo ezinjalo, kuphela Germans, kukho phantse ikhulu ipesenti, uyakwazi qinisekisa ukuba uza kufumana umntu, kodwa hayi oku, njengoko kwakunjalo kwixesha elide. Kodwa mna ubuqu siyazi ukuba kunye Germans, oku asiyo happiest indawo kuba romance. Nkqu ndicinga ukuba ke nzima ukwenza isicwangciso kuba uthando, mna anayithathela ngesiquphe zifunyenweyo a mmangaliso, okanye lowo akuthethi ukuba ukwazi malunga nam. Andizange dreamed ka-Germany kwaye Germans, ndiyafunga. Baba rhoqo pretty inyama opinions malunga nabo. Liechtenstein-i-elimfiliba efanayo ibali) Kwaye bahlobo bam watshata Germans kuba uthando.

Kwaye ngoko Sasejamani iza kutsho nge ibali apho Germans ingaba onomona xa ukubala njalo-njalo.

Mhlawumbi ndine kwi-Germany, kungcono umbutho, kubalulekile kuyo yonke indawo kwi Bhodi, umsebenzi sele azise kwixesha lokulima ukuze amaqhekeza aye ka-euros. Kwaye apha, kuba uthando ke, ngenxa, endiyenzayo a hotel maid, kwaye ndiza kwi-Germany ngokwenza a ezilungele umsebenzi kuba nawe, musa worry. Ukuba Niger kokuba ingeniso elungileyo, kwi-Germany kunye lowo unako ukubala kwi ngaphezulu ukuba kwi-i-ilingana no-footing kwaye Jikelele, ukuba yakho personal ubomi ukuze, kwi-usapho abantwana, zonke ndonwabe kwaye pleased, elungileyo impilo, akunyanzelekanga ukuba bakholelwe ezi iimeko imali, hayi abo ulonwabo kwaye Jikelele, ukuba yangasese ubomi konke kulungile kwi-usapho abantwana, zonke ndonwabe kwaye pleased, elungileyo impilo, akunyanzelekanga ukuba bakholelwe ezi imigaqo nemiqathango yemali, hayi kwi-zabo ulonwabo. Ndinazo zonke izihlobo ukuthetha ulwimi kwaye zonke umsebenzi wakho. inikezela ka-bags, kuphela"kodwa"- ayimfuno elungileyo incoko kwi-isijamani, kunye ngexesha, yonke into iya kuza. ngonyaka okanye ezimbini, kuya kuba elungileyo incoko kwi-isijamani. njengoko ukuba ndine abahlobo zonke phezu kwehlabathi ngendlela ezahlukeneyo amazwe, zonke eqale ukufunda ulwimi ukusuka ekuqaleni, bonke kunye ixesha uphuhliso. Umhlobo wam weza-Berlin iminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo, sele wathetha ngokupheleleyo, kunye izifundo kuba ubukhulu ezimbini zidlulileyo, ke yena lezinto ezinako ukwenzeka, lubandakanya herself. a kubekho inkqubela genius kukuba umhlobo qho ngonyaka-elide kunjalo kwinqanaba kuba enrollment ngolwimi ekubeni lezinto ezinako ukwenzeka, lubandakanya. ngoko ke ukuba u ekunene. Le njongo, ayinjalo ngokwaneleyo umonde ukuba umamele inferiors, kwaye ingabi kuqhuba iintlangaaniso dialogue. Ndinqwenela ukunika imizekelo emithathu ukususela ubomi bakhe kwaye acquaintances). Ndafumanisa i-Austrian boy, nomdla umahluko njengoko abanye suspects, nkqu ukuba babulale ngu ayifumaneki. Ezinjalo usapho nkxalabo, i-boy kufuneka kwakhona belong zethu phendla. Thina eyaziwayo kwi-Internet ngendlela foram, a uhlobo isihloko, ndingacingi uyikhumbule. Oko intliziyo ngaphandle ukuze sibe bahlala kuwo street kwaye waba sele crossed i-merchandise-store. Kunjalo, siya asikwazanga kufumana into efana elungileyo ibali:"wakhangela emva, asikwazanga sijonga emva, ukuba ngoko ke".

Kodwa uyakwazi siphile banal beginnings (ulwazi nge-Internet), bakholelwe kum, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ukuba ingaba usoloko uhleli ngakumbi beautiful (uthando, ukuqonda, ulonwabo).

Ngexesha lokuqala mna abaqondanga yakhe dialect, esibizwa kuphela kuthethwa kwi-hamba, ngoku mna kanjalo iguqulelwe wagqitywa kunye ethile dialect kwi isijamani. Ukuba lona"ulwimi barrier", ngoko ke ngendlela evakalayo Ewe, ngenxa yokuba usapho lwakhe, abahlobo kunye yena ngokwakhe banyanzeleka ukuba bathethe nam kwi-hamba, kungenjalo ndandisele"ngaphandle sihloko". mna ngenye zifunyenweyo iqelana ka-isijamani phraseologists ababe ukuzama ukufunda isijamani"quietly"ukufumana ukwazi umama wam) Lo mkhwa mnandi), umhlobo wam abo ndandidibana kwi inqwelo moya waba flying enye Austrians. Bahlangana kwi-site, umgangatho isijamani, Uthixo uyala ukuba E, wathi inani lamagama ngaphandle grammatical mimiselo: (isingesi akusebenzi azi). Siye saba abahlobo, kwaye kuba nam kwaba isityhilelo, njengokuba kubhaliwe ngamanye amaxesha, kwenzeka ntoni ebomini. Kuqala (kwi-Intanethi) umyeni (ngelo xesha umyeni wam) wabhala malunga Google, wabhala kwi-isijamani kwaye iguqulelwe kwi-Google, kwi-isijamani, ngoko bahlangana, communicated ngokusebenzisa facial yenza ingxenye yesakhelo, fingers, imizobo yobugcisa, isichazi-magama, olwathi abaguquleli, njalo njalo. Kuba ngonyaka baya yathetha kunye travelers (ngubani ke wahlala St. Marengo), kwaye lowo ezicetywayo, kuye. Ngoku yena ngu kancinci ngcono, yena uthetha isijamani (ukususela baba ayikwazi enroll ekuhambeni, ngokunjalo amaxwebhu itshintshile, njl. njl.), umyeni kuthatha inkathalo yakhe, iincwadi ingaba ezithengiweyo, yena iza ukuba kunjalo, amakhadi kunye inscription"ukubhala ne cola"ingaba oncanyathelisiweyoundo kwi khaya izinto. Umyeni kakhulu sithande kwaye ngokuphonononga kuyo yonke into. Nangona bambalwa kakhulu abantu yayo ubomi ingaba ilungile kuba oku ulwimi barrier umngeni). Ndinento enye boyfriend, umntu omnye waba ngokwaneleyo kuba nyanga mamela yakhe"misela lamagama", nkqu nokuba yonke into waqala ngaphandle omkhulu. Yena kugqitywe ukuba izakuba kanjalo sizathu ezininzi iingxaki, kwaye mna ungafuni strain ngokwam. Mna kuba omnye umhlobo owaye ngokwaneleyo yomntu ukuba umamele yakhe"misela lamagama"kuba nyanga, nkqu ukuba zonke waqala ngaphandle omkhulu. Yena wagqiba kwelokuba kanjalo azisa ezininzi iingxaki, kwaye mna ungafuni abeke nayiphi na iinzame kuyo. Xa wam isijamani weza kum ngexesha disco, emva yure kwaye thatha besiya elandelayo ithebhule nam, andikwazi kuthetha noba isijamani okanye isingesi. Ukwikhefu kwi-Ebulgaria, ngenxa phantse wonke umntu ayikwazi zithungelana. Ngexesha esikolweni, Bulgarians ikakhulu wafundisa isijamani, kwaye mna ngokukhawuleza begin ukuqonda isibulgarian, andinalo iingxaki unxibelelwano kunye iipali kwaye Slovaks, ndine kancinci ubunzima unxibelelwano kunye Macedonians kwaye Czechs, kuba ndiyazi isijamani kakuhle kwaye ndafunda isijamani kakuhle.

Abaninzi Slavic iilwimi ingaba kakhulu efanayo.

Mna ungafuni strain wam isingesi, ke mna, wanika yakhe a yaphula xa yena wafika. Kwaye emva konyaka ka-ukusebenza njengoko utitshala (nge-iiyure ngenyanga kwaye ezahlukeneyo subjects), mna umsebenzi okwesibini kwi-ngokuhlwa kwaye on weekends, kwaye mna kanjalo kuba ucinga ukuba mna ungafuni ukufunda langaphandle ulwimi, hayi nyani. Kodwa boy waba stubborn kwaye kakhulu ngothando. Phantse yonke kuqala unyaka ka-unxibelelwano bandinceda, bahlobo bam. Thina ngxi kokuba i-interpreter endaweni ye-girls. Umzekelo, xa ndizama emi phantsi kum"incoko,"mna umnxeba umhlobo kwaye ucele kum,"kwaye njani ndithi oku ngesingesi?"Yena ubhala a isivakalisi kwiphwetsha kwaye frees kum ukususela balcony Sele esibhaliweyo kwelinye isihloko, nto leyo wam isijamani elandelayo ntsasa, emva kwentlanganiso kwi: kwenye indawo i-Internet club efunyenweyo kwaye ishicilelwe ngaphandle izivakalisi kwi-isijamani nge transcription kwaye uguqulelo kulwimi isijamani ukuba ukuncokola nam kwi beach.

Msinyane mna ngokukhawuleza bafunda a isivakalisi njenge"makhe ndiye nokuqubha,"njl.

njl, abaninzi izincomo baba ishicilelwe, kodwa ndandisele embarrassed ukuthi kubo. Mna ngoko nangoko liked i-modesty kwaye okulungileyo manners ye-mfana. Kwaye kakhulu, kakhulu ezahlukileyo ukususela arrogant kwaye boys kwi-Bulgarian resort. Ngoko ke, sibhale ngamnye ezinye kwi Internet (i-imeyili apha: yabhalwa kwaye iguqulelwe ngokuthi umhlobo). Kutyelela umhlobo e umhlobo ke indlu. Ndandingasakwazi uncedo kodwa ukuthetha isingesi, kwaye ngonyaka kamva mna eqale ukufunda isijamani. Nkqu ngoku, emva ezininzi iminyaka engama-iintlanganiso kwaye iinyanga umtshato, ndithi ukuba ayinjalo esihle kakhulu kwi-isijamani, kunye iimpazamo. Ndine yesikolo esiphakamileyo aphumelele khona idiploma yemfundo.

Oku kubaluleke kakhulu umdla xa ufuna ukufunda ulwimi kwaye qala ebonisa yakho uphawu, ugqirha, ngokuxoxa inkcubeko, amaxwebhu kunye nabalobi everyday izinto.

Ndicinga ukuba amazwi ukuqonda ngamnye ezinye akunjalo, ngoko ke kubalulekile. Umyeni wam, ukuqonda imeko yam engqondweni yakho, nje jonga kum. Yena ikuqonda kum ngcono kunokuba ndenze. Nkqu ndinako rhoqo kubona ntoni yena ufuna ilungelo kude. Sikwangawo kwi-isigaba ye-ebizwa-"ulwimi barrier", apho siya ndafunda ukuba zithungelana ngoncedo ezithile imiqondiso yosasazo iqulethe hayi kuphela"shells", kodwa kanjalo inkangeleko, facial yenza ingxenye yesakhelo kwaye movements. Kubalulekile iluncedo kakhulu, umzekelo, kwi-enkulu iqela abahlobo ukuba exchange opinions imizuzwana embalwa. nkqu akunyanzelekanga ukuba ngenene khangela into engalunganga nge oku, ndingacingi khangela ukuba ubomi ngoluhlobo. Umyeni wam unako ukuthi kunye ukukholosa ukuze sibe yadibana-Intanethi (akekho k ubonakala ngathi romanticcomment kwaphela, kodwa akukho bani owaziyo njani abantu abaninzi ingaba ayikwazi ezininzi abantu, wenza kuba nam), kodwa uninzi Germans kufuna lo cwaka xa bahlala kunye a foreigner.

Ewe, simele hayi hamba kakhulu ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, wathi kuyo isijamani society ukuba thina, Isithai, bahlale kunye Germans, nokwazi malunga ne-Intanethi, ngoko ke ngoko nangoko, weva kuphela uluvo kwesi sihloko:"i-Ilungisiwe umfazi kwi-Intanethi", kwaye Germans ziphumo ngcono uluvo lwakhe.

Nangona andinayo ubuqu zahlangana a isijamani usapho apha, mna watshata a isijamani kuba ezi zinto izizathu. Elide-umgama budlelwane nabanye kufuna ezininzi lincinane, kwaye kuba nam kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze sibe zilawulwe ukuba baphile ngonyaka ngexesha umgama, kwaye uluvo abo uthi:"mna Ilungisiwe a isijamani, kwi-Intanethi umfazi", andinguye anomdla. Kwaye, endleleni, kwaye Germans, yintoni wena uve yi contemptuous"Nantsi enye emva otyebileyo isijamani", nkqu ukuba babe andazi nantoni na malunga kum kwaye andazi nantoni na malunga nam. Oh, andwebileyo malunga nam. Ndine isijamani umhlobo abo ufuna ukufumana isijamani bride. Yena ke amashumi amathathu anesihlanu eminyaka ubudala. Vula, intelligent, ezilungileyo kunye ezandleni zakhe.

Ukubhala nabani na olilungu anomdla.